You could start doing the things that will make him FEEL ATTRACTED and romantically interested in YOU.
With me here?
Good.
You’ve got to remember…
Attraction isn’t created by “logic.”
A man doesn’t talk to a woman about Europe and become fascinated and sexually charged by her knowledge of the Duomo, the Sistine Chapel or the fine wines of France’s Bordeaux region.
Attraction doesn’t take place when a man thinks inside his mind, “Gee, she’s smart, cultured, well traveled, etc., I think I’m going to feel attracted to her.”
That’s not how it works at all… just like that’s not how you become interested and attracted in men.
It’s MUCH more subconscious.
Think chemistry.
Can a man “reason” with you so that you feel ATTRACTION or CHEMISTRY with him?
Didn’t think so.
But he can DO things that will make you FEEL ATTRACTION, even if you’re not really “choosing” to be attracted to him.
Well, the same is true for a man who’s just meeting you…
And sure, the things that are “logically attractive” like travel in Europe don’t hurt… but they’re really just window-dressing for the things that are going on underneath the surface in our minds and emotions.
What makes a man feel attracted is the EMOTIONAL EXPERIENCE he has that a woman creates with him or guides him to.
Attraction is a largely SUBCONSCIOUS FEELING that comes in response to the unexpected, the unpredictable, and the things that can’t help but draw us in to connect in an emotional way.
So let’s land the plane here…
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