Let’s start by talking about why the “reason” is so important… and then we’ll get into a specific example.
The “reason” you create for a man to reconnect with you is important because it builds the entire CONTEXT and MEANING in a man’s mind of how he thinks about you after he leaves…
That reason you give is a large part of what determines, in his mind, HIS reason for calling (or not calling).
So here’s how to create great “reasons” with a man…
First off, stop making future plans with men for first dates around things that are BORING, everyday, and PREDICTABLE.
Yes, trips to Europe can be fascinating, cool, sophisticated, cultural and all kinds of great things.
And yeah, talking about Europe, travel, sites, art history, etc. can interest a man intellectually.
And I have to admit that traveling to Europe has involved some of the most romantic moments of my life.
These are great things to talk about with a man in random conversations.
But guess what?
Planning a man’s trip with a man is NOT going to make him FEEL those romantic feelings with you just because you’ve become his travel guide.
Planning travel can be looked at as a kind of chore for some people… especially men.
In other words, you could hope that the romance of Venice or Florence rubs off on you somehow through some magic “transference” as you talk about them…
Or…
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