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Creating Reasons For A Man To Call You Back - #4原因造成一名男子骂你回来-4#“Should I just not accept that he tells me he’s going to call?”"我只是要告诉我他不能接受,他的电话去"? Great question.大问题. Here’s the thing…这里的事:: It’s important for you to have “boundaries” with men.它的重要你有"边界"与男人. It’s important for your own good, to help him know what’s fair game and what isn’t and to lay some constructive framework for a future relationship.这是一个十分重要的为你们好,帮助他知道的,什么是不公平的游戏,并奠定了一些建设性的未来关系架构. A key step in every growing relationship is to communicate what your personal boundaries are so that the other person can learn to respect them.在每一个关键步骤,是关系日益沟通你个人的界限,使对方可以学习尊重他们. But, in situations where you don’t even know the person very well, it’s not as simple as just laying it out there.但是,在某些情况下甚至根本不知道你人很好,它不只是简单打出来. So… it’s also important that you don’t communicate these boundaries in a pushy, weird, needy, overly-sensitive way where men will instantly pull away from you.所以::这也很重要,你不急在这界沟通、怪异,家境清贫,过于敏感地抠下,会马上离开你男人. I know, I know… for lots of women this sounds like a contradiction.我知道,我知道::这好像是很多女性的矛盾. When they hear it they’ll think…当他们听到他们就会觉得:: “You mean I’m supposed to be “unpredictable” and create attraction, but I’m also supposed to be assertive enough to communicate my boundaries.”"你的意思是我活该"变幻莫测",创造吸引力、但我也理应为我国疆界沟通不够果断." “This is too much hassle… I just want to be me, and if a guy doesn’t like it, then tough!”"这是太麻烦了::我只想做我,如果不喜欢的家伙,那么硬"! It’s no surprise that a lot of the women with this attitude (and men) are single and home alone on Friday nights watching David Letterman.这不足为奇,很多女性与这种态度是单身(男)、单家周五晚收看幼Letterman</English>他. And wonder why their relationships just seem to fall apart after a while… over and over.而为什么他们的关系似乎刚刚蹋过了一会::唱完. The truth is, communicating boundaries and creating attraction with a man are NOT mutually exclusive activities.事实是,传界限,创造了男子魅力并不互相排斥. AND… if you know how, these kinds of situations can become AMAZING OPPORTUNITIES to create attraction and GROWTH between you and a man.::如果你知道如何,这种情况能成为创造惊人的吸引力和成长机会之间你和一名男子. If you know how to communicate with a man in the right way, you can get the response that you want (attraction) AND communicate a clear message.如果你知道如何与人沟通的方式,将你可以说你想要得到的回应(吸引力)和沟通清楚. Which in your case might be for him to respect your boundaries by calling if he says he’s going to call.这可能是他在你案尊重你们的界线,他说,如果他要求的将打电话. But if you don’t get the subtle specifics of how to communicate with a man this way, then often times you’ll come off as pushy or “bitchy” like lots of other women do when they try to assert boundaries early on with men.但如果你不得到具体如何沟通微妙男子这样然后时而急如您松脱或"恶"像其他很多女性当他们试图早就断言疆界与男人. Try saying something like this in a semiserious way but with a smirk on your face…尽说一些这样的方式,而是以一种semiserioussmirk你面前:: “You know, I might just decide to give you my number, but I’m not sure if you’re the right kind of guy yet - because I’m VERY PICKY and I only give my number out to guys that A) have their act together and B) are smart enough to know what they’re missing if they don’t call.”"你知道,我可能只是决定给你我的电话号码,但我不知道你是正确的家伙,但因为我很挑剔,我只给我多出一旦)有他们一起乙)很精明知道他们失踪若不打电话." And then write down your number and hold it out for him to grab.然后你写出来为他举行多项攫取. But when he reaches for it, pull it away from his hand a little bit so he misses it…但是当他到达的话,它拉离他的手一点点::所以它思念 Then keep teasing him and ask him again with a wry smile on your face…然后又不断取笑他,问他笑歪了你的脸::在 “Well, do you have your act together?"好,你有你一起? Because I really don’t have time for boys that don’t因为我真的没有时间没有男孩 This kind of thing will drive a man CRAZY and triggers a deep level attraction response - that’s not just a “physical” thing.这种事情会引发疯狂驾驶人反应深层魅力--不只"身体"的事情. Einen Kommentar schreibeneinenKommentarschreiben
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