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Whats Going On INSIDE Yourself – Communicating你什么正在进行内部-沟通I have news for you: when you think about something important to you or your relationship for hours or days… and then you finally are with your man and you take everything you’ve thought of and let it out, expecting him to hear you and understand where it’s all coming from….我有消息告诉你:当你想到了你还是你的重要关系数小时或数天,然后你::终于有如果你把你的一切人与你想过让出来,他期待听到你了解那里的一切::来自. He’s NOT going to get it or understand you.他不能取得或了解你. Why?为什么? It’s not because he doesn’t care or that he isn’t trying to hear you.这并不是因为他不在乎,他还是想听听你不是. Simply put - you had hours or days or weeks invested in thinking about what’s in YOUR HEAD.简单地说,你们有数小时或数天或数星期投入思考什么,在你的头. And then you took all that “processing” and thinking and spoke a few words about it to him with the assumption that he’d be able to get exactly what it is you were going through.然后把你的一切,"加工"和思维并讲几句话给他提供假定他真想得到什么是你经历. WRONG.错. Now, are men less than open or receptive to listening sometimes when you share your feelings.现在,男性少于公开或不接受,当你听有时同感. Yes.不错. But if you want to build a RELATIONSHIP with a man, then you know you’re both going to have to learn about how to connect and share with each other.但如果你想建立一个与一名男子那么你知道你都必须学会如何去分享彼此连接. He’ll have to learn about how things work for you.他一定要了解如何为你工作. And you’ll have to learn about how things work for him.包包、了解如何为他工作. If your own thoughts, internal emotions, and YOUR PERSPECTIVE on how things work are trying to run the show… then it’s very likely that you’re not going to get very far in your relationship with a man, and that it’s not going to last too long.如果你自己的想法,内部情绪,工作角度看,你想办展览::那很可能你不你会得到很大的关系一男而它的最后不会太长. One of the toughest things to do is to actually learn how to take what you think and feel and have someone else not only listen in an open and supportive way… but to actually UNDERSTAND YOU and where you’re coming from.最困难的事要做,实际上就是学习如何把你的想法和感受,并不仅听别人都在公开和扶持办法::但要真正理解你和你那里来自. People spend years or decades studyinghow to do become strong communicators and relate well to other people.人们花费数年或数十年studyinghow做强大与人沟通,并给其他人. The sooner you learn what it takes for you to communicate with a man and get the RESPONSE that you want (him being open, supportive, loving, understanding)…越早学你所需要的人与你沟通,得到了大家的响应,想(他公开,支持、热爱、理解):: Then the sooner you’re going to be able to start living a fulfilling life and create a great relationship that you can have CONFIDENCE and SECURITY in.那么,你一定会能越早开始过着充实的生活,创造一个巨大的关系你可以信任和安全的. Einen Kommentar schreibeneinenKommentarschreiben
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