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How To Approach Conversations With A Man – Communicating In A Negative Way如何看待交谈人为沟通负面方式Communicating Your Expectations In An Accidentally Negative Way - When you start getting your hopes and expectations up, you begin to get ATTACHED to them.你期望在一个偶然的负面沟通方式,当你开始越来越贵了希望和期待,你开始把附在他们. Then you run the risk of HOLDING ON TOO TIGHT to your little fantasy.那么你就太冒险控股紧你一点幻想. Bad idea.坏主意. Men don’t date women and feel comfortable and excited to be with them when the woman starts off assuming too much… and turns the time they spend together and their relationship into what feels like a “requirement” or an “obligation”.男、女不舒服与兴奋的日期将与他们当女人开锣假设过于::坎坷多花时间和他们在一起是什么感觉关系进入一个"规定"或"义务". Remember, a good guy is used to having women want to become serious with him VERY QUICKLY… even though HIS MIND doesn’t always move at the same pace.记得好人是用来想拥有女与他很快成为严重::即使他心中不一定谨的脚步. Often times, before a guy has had a chance to know if his relationship with a woman is something he really wants and could last… she’s already getting UPSET that he’s not “ready” the way she is.时而一个家伙才知道是否有机会与他的女人是他真想可以去::她说,他已越来越不高兴的不是"准备"这样她. In fact, some guys almost EXPECT to date a woman and then have her say, “You know, I’m a little frustrated or bothered by the way you are with me and our relationship…” or some other equally predictable and subtly negative statement.事实上,一些男士几乎期望迄今女人,然后她说:"你知道,我有点沮丧或困扰的方式与我和你的关系::"还是其他同样阴性预测和巧妙的声明. Just like being desperate can destroy your chances with a man… liking a man too much, too fast and then communicating your own expectations to him through your negative emotions leads to bad outcomes as well.正如同绝望机会可以摧毁你喜欢一名男子与另一名男子::太多,太快,然后向他传达自己的期望,通过你们的消极情绪也是导致不良结果. Now, think over what I just said…现在,想一想::我刚才 I’m basically saying that if you want to cure the problem of why it can be so hard to talk to a man when you’re dating and about moving things forward… then you have to go INSIDE first and become aware of what’s going on for yourself.基本上我认为如果你想治好的问题,为什么可以这么难谈一男子约会,约当你向前移动的东西::那么你必须进去,成为首知道怎么回事呢. And then see how this affects HIM.再看看这影响他. The GOOD NEWS is that doing this kind of “introspection” is not only good for you, it好消息是,这样的"反思"不仅是为您好, So, here’s a few things I’d suggest you try:所以,这里的几件事我建议你尝试: Whats Going On INSIDE Yourself - Meeting Men & Dating什么正在进行内部自己的会议与男人约会 If you go out one evening with a couple of friends, and you meet a REALLY hot guy… and you wind up having a fun conversation and he asks for your number, what should you do?如果你有一对夫妇一个晚上出门友人而你满足了::你家伙真热收场有乐趣、他要求你交谈数,怎么办? Should you start thinking about how great it will be to be with him when you’re in a你应该开始思考如何将他当你是在 No.编号 You should remember what we talked about - that often times when you really like a guy and you start filling your head with all kinds of expectations… you not only have a harder time being your “best self” when you’re around him again…你应该记得我们谈论这时候,你常常喜欢一个家伙,你真的开始填充你的头::你期待各种困难时,不仅有了你的"最佳自我"你身边::又 But you often end up acting in ways that turn him off and make him become closed off to the idea of a future with you.但你最后往往把代理方式,使他成为他开车到封闭构想中的未来与你们. Instead of putting all your “hopes” in this one situation, remember that this is just the你不要把所有的"希望"在这一局面,记住,这只是 And of course, it never hurts to keep in mind that other guy you met a while back who而当然,这绝不伤害记住,你等会见前阵子那些家伙 Think about it… when are you MOST likely to have a man be into you?想一想:当你最有可能发生一名男子将变成你? When are you most likely to be in a great mood that actually ATTRACTS a man?当你多半出现了伟大的心情,其实吸引了男人? Exactly… when you’re not WORRIED or NERVOUS about what’s going to happen next.正是时候::你不担心或紧张会怎样未来. So take advantage of this time.所以趁这个时候. Einen Kommentar schreibeneinenKommentarschreiben
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