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I have news for you: when you think about something important to you or your relationship for hours or days… and then you finally are with your man and you take everything you’ve thought of and let it out, expecting him to hear you and understand where it’s all coming from…. He’s NOT going to get it or understand you.

Why?

It’s not because he doesn’t care or that he isn’t trying to hear you. Simply put - you had hours or days or weeks invested in thinking about what’s in YOUR HEAD. And then you took all that “processing” and thinking and spoke a few words about it to him with the assumption that he’d be able to get exactly what it is you were going through.

WRONG.

Now, are men less than open or receptive to listening sometimes when you share your feelings.

Yes.

But if you want to build a RELATIONSHIP with a man, then you know you’re both going to have to learn about how to connect and share with each other. He’ll have to learn about how things work for you.

And you’ll have to learn about how things work for him.

If your own thoughts, internal emotions, and YOUR PERSPECTIVE on how things work are trying to run the show… then it’s very likely that you’re not going to get very far in your relationship with a man, and that it’s not going to last too long.

One of the toughest things to do is to actually learn how to take what you think and feel and have someone else not only listen in an open and supportive way… but to actually UNDERSTAND YOU and where you’re coming from.

People spend years or decades studyinghow to do become strong communicators and relate well to other people.

The sooner you learn what it takes for you to communicate with a man and get the RESPONSE that you want (him being open, supportive, loving, understanding)…

Then the sooner you’re going to be able to start living a fulfilling life and create a great relationship that you can have CONFIDENCE and SECURITY in.

Der Beitrag wurde am Freitag, den 26. Januar 2007 um 13:51 Uhr veröffentlicht und wurde unter How To Quickly Get To Know A Man & His Feelings abgelegt. Du kannst die Kommentare zu diesen Eintrag durch den RSS 2.0 Feed verfolgen. Du kannst einen Kommentar schreiben, oder einen Trackback auf deiner Seite einrichten.