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Men are NEVER attracted to and stay
with women who NEED them

Let me tell you something you might not have
thought about…

Did you know that a woman doesn’t have to
actually be “needy” for a man to feel like she’s
needy and get that “Ewwwwwww” feeling inside
where he won’t want to be around her much anymore?

Here’s the thing…

A man has his own experience in the world
that is different from most women’s experience.

Most successful, attractive men have met and
spoken to A LOT of women in their lives.

And over time, they’ve also talked to lots
of women who unfortunately acted “needy” and
clingy around them at some time or another, and
it was a huge turn off.

Well, imagine what it does to a man’s
perspective on women in general when he’s had
lots of women act this way around him when he’s
dated or been in a relationship?

Although it isn’t fair… a man will become
VERY QUICK to see and identify things that women
do around him as an indication of these same
negative and unattractive needy qualities.

The strange thing is that often times the
more attractive and desirable a man is… then
the more sensitive his “neediness radar” is
because he’s had lots of women act in a way
with him that felt needy and desperate.

Point being, if a woman does something that
communicates any of these “needy” qualities
to a man… then even if she isn’t as needy
as other women who might have acted in a similar
way… a man is going to quickly judge the woman
as overly needy and get that instant bad feeling
inside where he wants to get away from her.

In case you aren’t clear on it… a man won’t
feel ATTRACTION for a woman who communicates to
him that she has to be with him and have a
relationship in order to be happy and feel good.

He might have some PHYSICAL ATTRACTION for
a woman who acts this way… but a man will be
very weary of becoming EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED
with a woman who seems to have a lot of emotional
“needs” from him early on.

To a man, a woman who looks to him too much
for emotional support or clarity on how she
should feel and if things are good or not between
them becomes the very definition of “needy” to
him.

Of course, most women aren’t trying to
communicate these things to a man and don’t
really feel 100% “needy” inside, but they end up
communicating these things to a man ON ACCIDENT
as they’re trying to help their relationship grow
and work.

But no matter what your intentions, if your
behavior resembles the common things that
other women do who are “needy” that men have
seen or felt before… then a man will end
up getting that negative and unattractive “needy”
feeling from a woman anyways.

Now, I know it doesn’t seem very fair that
a man will see you as needy even if you aren’t.

And I know that men should stop being so
emotionally “gun-shy” and freaked out.

But the reality is that for a man, it isn’t
a “conscious” and logical process when he gets
that “Ewwwww” feeling inside that comes from
thinking a woman is acting or being needy with
him.

It’s just the way that a man responds in
the moment on a deep emotional level without
thinking.

Of course, what lots of women end up doing
is to try and be the opposite of needy, and be
very generous and giving.

To them, it makes sense on some level that
if a man doesn’t like a needy woman, then the
exact opposite must work.

WRONG.

This doesn’t help create the kind of ATTRACTION
inside a man that will make him feel so into you
that he’ll want to spend all his time with you.

Sure, if you dote on a man, flirt and pay him
all kinds of attention to flatter him, and you
do enough “nice” things for him, he may “fall”
for you. But in that case it’s not because he
feels ATTRACTION for you.

No.

It’s because he feels AFFECTION for you.

And who wouldn’t want to spend some time with
someone who treats them this way.

But the affection that a man will feel, and
the quick and easy emotions he’ll have from your
attention can’t be confused with a strong and
deeper level of ATTRACTION.

It’s not the kind of ATTRACTION that lasts
for longer than the attention your paying him
and the ego-boost he’s getting from you.

That’s another thing all together for a man.