One of the main reasons why I talk about the concept of ATTRACTION is that when it
comes to situations where a man changes the way
he’s acting with you, or starts to feel differently
about you… the REAL underlying reason for this,
is usually that the man doesn’t feel that intense
level of ATTRACTION for you anymore.
And this is especially true early on when
you’re just “dating”.
When you boil it all down… when a man has
asked you out, takes you out on a few dates that
you felt were great, and then STOPS calling and
asking you out… he just plain isn’t FEELING IT
for you anymore.
Now, a man will say and do all kinds of
things OTHER than telling you that this is what’s
going on for him.
In fact, men have a million things in their
heads that keep them from being able to tell a
woman what they’re feeling. (That is, if they
even consciously know that this is what’s really
going on inside their own head)
Instead, men will “rationalize” what’s going
on inside them and think or say things like-
“I can’t tell her how I REALLY feel because
I don’t want to hurt her feelings that way”…
Or, “I can’t tell her what’s going on because
I can’t really explain it and I don’t want to
deal with the conversation”…
Or, “It’s just easier if I walk away and
don’t say anything”.
NOt fun stuff.
The thing is, when you take away all of the
B.S. and you get right to the core of what’s
going on, you’ll usually find that it all boils
down to ATTRACTION… or, more specifically,
the LACK of ATTRACTION.
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am Sonntag, den 11. März 2007 um 04:00 Uhr veröffentlicht
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