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FOCUS ON THE PROBLEM, NOT THE SYMPTOMS

Here’s something I want you to think about
that relates to men, love and relationships…

When it comes to health and medicine, there
are a few different approaches that doctors
and caregivers take.

One general approach is to try and get rid
of and alleviate as many of the SYMPTOMS as
possible. Basically this is to try and help the
body feel better in the absence of symptoms that
complicate or get in the way of the healing
process.

Sometimes this approach works.

Another approach is to focus on the underlying
PROBLEM or ILLNESS itself… and that by
addressing this, all the other symptoms that
have been going on will start to take care of
themselves and quickly go away.

This approach often has stronger and longer
lasting results when it comes to your overall
long term health and wellness.

The thing is, if you’re like most women, then
you’ve had several serious relationships in your
life where things were going well with a man…
but then trouble started showing up and things
quickly felt differently and changed.

SYMPTOMS came up in your relationship…

The man didn’t act as interested anymore.

Or he didn’t call or make plans as much anymore.

Or he wasn’t as affectionate as he used to be.

Or he seemed suddenly distant or withdrawn.

It’s here that most women make the mistake
of trying to FIX what’s going on…. when what
they’re trying to fix is really just a SYMPTOM
of something else going on at a deeper level.

So by trying to fix the SYMPTOMS, they end
up wasting their time and energy, and they don’t
end up addressing the actual PROBLEM that’s going
on and is the source of all the other SYMPTOMS.

Now, you’re probably becoming aware of where
I’m going with all this.

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