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You might either feel pissed at me for saying this, or you might really feel pissed
at your past relationship and the man in it for not appreciating you and abandoning you.

I understand.

But don’t let it keep you from LEARNING and GROWING.

I get that men can do some pretty crappy things… and handle them in even crappier ways with you.

But there’s a harsh reality to face…

Unless you want to keep repeating the same mistakes in your life, and re-living
the same painful situations with men…

You’re going to have to forget about what it is that a man might think or do that is
beyond your control.

And you’re going to have to, as much as it might seem scary or too much work for you, start focusing on what it is you CAN CONTROL- Your own thinking and behavior. Let me be CRYSTAL CLEAR about this-

Why does a man fall “out of love” and leave a woman that he loves?

Because he CHOOSES TO.

Because the EXPERIENCES he has with a woman tell him on an EMOTIONAL LEVEL that not being with her is what is best for him. It’s really that simple if you boil it
all down.

Of course, truly understanding and accepting this cold-hard fact is a whole different story. TONS of women literally spend their entire lives upset and frustrated with trying to figure out why men do the things they do, or feel the things they feel, only to end up back in the same place again and again - Abandoned, loveless and alone.

And with all that pain and frustration, it makes sense that they’re never really able
to STOP WORRYING so much about him and why things are happening the way they are… instead of starting to DO and SAY the things that will actually make him feel like being with them and staying with them on an EMOTIONAL LEVEL in the first place. Starting to follow me here?

Good.

Sometimes what seems impossibly complex and illogical to understand can, instead of being analyzed and explained, simply have a “shift” take place around it where things quickly change.

Der Beitrag wurde am Dienstag, den 13. Februar 2007 um 20:07 Uhr veröffentlicht und wurde unter Allgemein, Has a man ever... abgelegt. Du kannst die Kommentare zu diesen Eintrag durch den RSS 2.0 Feed verfolgen. Du kannst einen Kommentar schreiben, oder einen Trackback auf deiner Seite einrichten.