One of the first things most women who experience a man leaving or “falling out of love” with them is to either:
A) Quickly turn against the man and tell themselves he was never even CAPABLE of loving someone else the way they love him, and close themselves off
B) Try to deny or dispute the fact that the man is now feeling the way he feels by trying to make sense of it and find out what they think is the “real reason”… and then argue against his feelings to try and change his mind
C) Become incredibly upset and either explode in pain or anger to him… or they become sad and try to get him back by hoping he’ll see how devastated they are and take pity on them and take them back
Now, see anything interesting about men, about yourself, and about how communication works from reading these 3 responses?
Here’s a hint- what do all these have in common when it comes to addressing any of the “real problems” that might be going on, and why a man might want to leave?
They are all 100% COUNTERPRODUCTIVE.
In other words, they not only don’t help with men. Doing these things actually makes things a whole lot worse.
Translation - the man who was already feeling like he didn’t want to spend more time with you ends up feeling like being around you is worse than he thought before.
And you can almost hear the last nail being hammered into your relationship coffin.
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am Dienstag, den 13. Februar 2007 um 20:05 Uhr veröffentlicht
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