What it is: Moving in a way that is specifically intended to excite him
How to do it: Men are erotic visualists, more intensely aroused by visual stimulation than women are. Some men say that watching a woman climax is the ultimate form of arousal for them.
Many women touch themselves discreetly during intercourse to facilitate orgasm. Few realize they can use this little move with a theatrical flourish to arouse their men. Next time you’re ready to make love and he isn’t particularly interested, put on a sexy shirt and nothing else (except maybe black thigh-high stockings and a pair of heels) and assume a provocative position, with your back against the headboard, legs open and bent at the knees. Place two fingers in an inverted V straddling your clitoris.
What couples say:
“This is one of the sexiest things a woman can do for her man. When she touches herself and looks into his eyes, she’s sharing a part of herself he can’t have any other way. I want my wife to do this for me — I fantasize about it — but so far she hasn’t.”
–Brad, 29
“The idea embarrasses me. I don’t want to watch him, so why does he want to watch me? I’ll probably do it someday just to please him, but I’ll need a glass of wine first.”
–Kristen, 27, his wife
“She looks at me while she’s doing it. She takes long, slow strokes; and I go from zero to a 90-degree erection in no time. When her hips start moving faster and her eyes get heavy, I have to have her now.”
–Jeff, 35
“I feel so powerful when I have that kind of immediate and intense effect on him. The electricity we generate from eye contact would light a room. If you can’t be a shameless exhibitionist with your husband, then with whom?”
–Lisa, 34, his wife
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am Samstag, den 13. Mai 2006 um 06:40 Uhr veröffentlicht
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